Opinion

Spaceholders, how are you taking care of yourself?

Written by Vu Le

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A few days ago, I joined 100+ leaders at the Community-Centric Fundraising family reunion in San Diego. There are few events I attend where I feel completely at ease. Everyone was thoughtful about not recreating the default (i.e., white corporate) dynamics we see in other spaces. Even though we were discussing some serious issues—such as the ethics of using AI in fundraising—there was a palpable sense of community, authenticity, and joy. I never once felt like I had to code-switch. It was a rejuvenating couple of days for me.

Especially since I didn’t present at all. I didn’t do welcoming remarks. I gave zero speeches. I attended the sessions in t-shirt and flip-flops and stuffed my face with snacks, listening and learning from the many amazing voices who led the workshops and discussions.

But because I stayed on-site, I saw how hard the CCF leaders worked. They had planned this event for months, handling hundreds of logistical details needed to make this gathering a success. Before the reunion took place, they were already there, having a pre-reunion retreat on CCF’s direction. Easel papers covered with sticky notes were pasted all around the walls. Several leaders stayed up until midnight or later the day before the event, preparing their presentations and then were up at 6am the next day to set up signs, lay out breakfast, and do other tasks.

Conveners like the CCF leaders are an example of our sector’s “spaceholders,” a term I learned from healer Gina Breedlove at a gathering of progressive donors and movement leaders last fall, where I was invited to do a 30-minute stand-up comedy set about nonprofit and philanthropy. Gina came up to me and said, “Vu, I see you as a spaceholder. I’m having a meeting of fellow spaceholders later and I welcome you to attend.”

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About the author

Vu Le

Vu Le (“voo lay”) is a writer, speaker, vegan, Pisces, and the former Executive Director of RVC, a nonprofit in Seattle that promotes social justice by developing leaders of color, strengthening organizations led by communities of color, and fostering collaboration between diverse communities.

Vu’s passion to make the world better, combined with a low score on the Law School Admission Test, drove him into the field of nonprofit work, where he learned that we should take the work seriously, but not ourselves. There’s tons of humor in the nonprofit world, and someone needs to document it. He is going to do that, with the hope that one day, a TV producer will see how cool and interesting our field is and make a show about nonprofit work, featuring attractive actors attending strategic planning meetings and filing 990 tax forms.

Known for his no-BS approach, irreverent sense of humor, and love of unicorns, Vu has been featured in dozens, if not hundreds, of his own blog posts at NonprofitAF.com.